My life

I have not done a blog for a while, first of all I went away for a few days. We all went down to Dorset to visit the grand parent as my eldest son robert is moving to the nietherlands in may and it will be the last time they see him for a while. Lee decided to stay at home although we discovered after that he arranged a party when we returned home we discovered the house in a mess his friend trashed the house well as you could imagine we were very annoyed he spent his birthday cleaning. Sugar all over the bedroom floor and on the shelves beer in the fish tank dirty foot print right through the house. I'm not surprised he stayed away for a couple of days stay out of our way. I have also been doing a lot of thinking lately and have applied for a nursing course at our local university, I know it will be hard work but in the end I think it will be rewarding all I have to do is wait for my boss to give me a reference fingers crossed.

My life

Not been sleeping very well lately the other night I was awake most of the night and up at 4,30 in the morning making myself cup it is surprising as I went on twitter to see who is on that time of the morning. Got some nice mothers day presents on Sunday pampering set from rob and box of chocolates and DVD from Joe although he did not buy them Lee nothing as usual but I have learnt not to expect anything as he is on jobseekers allowance. Had to take Joe to dentist today as he may need braces but to his relief he was told come back in a years time. Had a discussion with melvyn this morning as Joe took some sweets from his brothers room he since appologised anyway when a child is naughty or does something wrong I believe that you should punish him for what he has done say, ground him or take something away like pocket money fora couple of days then give him everything back. Forgive and forget then move on because it's no good keep harping on the past but Melvyn does not see it like that if one of our children does something wrong then yes he will ground them or take something off them but it alway seems to go on for weeks some times then they end up repeating the crime. He think I am burying my head in the sand but I have always had a different out look toward the children then he does i see them as vulnerable young people maybe it because I am a carer by profession he sees them as stupid idiots that get on his nerve kids are not naughty 24/7 so why treat them like they are I am making it sound as if he is a monster which is not the case. Heis a good man just can't deal with the kids sometimes.
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